Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
I hope this reaches you in the best of health and Imaan.
I wanted to ask a question regarding my friends marriage, as she has just recently gotten married. She did nikah but the rukhsati has yet to happen, and her husband wants to start their physical relation before the rukhsati. Islamically the girl is not allowed to decline her husband when he calls her for this but my friend doesn't want to do it cause her parents told her, it shouldn't happen.
What should my friend do in this situation?
please respond asap
this is urgent
الجواب وباللہ التوفیق
After the nikah has been ratified between a man and a woman, they both become “halal” for each other and are allowed to establish their physical personal relationship like a husband and wife without waiting for “rukhsati”.
واما بیان حکم النکاح فحل الوطئی الا فی حالۃ الحیض والنفاس والاحرام وفی الظھار قبل التکفیر لقولہ سبحانہ تعالی والذین ھم لفروجھم حافظون الا علی ازواجھم او ماملکت ایمانھم فانھم غیر ملومین (بدائع الصنائع ،فصل بیان حکم النکاح :جزء۲،ص ۳۳۰)
فقط واللہ اعلم بالصواب