بسم اللہ الرحمن الرحیم

الجواب وباللہ التوفیق

It is better for you to go to your parents or to live with other “mahaarim” but only with the permission of your husband for a few days to get some peace of mind. It is not permissible to live elsewhere separately without the permission of the husband. Living in a separate apartment alone can really be dangerous. 

Continue trying to bring your husband closer to yourself with courtesy, friendliness, kindness and obedience in lawful matter. Be punctual in your daily prayers. Be punctual in your daily prayers. Recite “istighfaar” frequently and make du'aa'.

Also, recite:

a. “Ya-Lateef - Ya-Wadood” 1100 times after Ishaa prayers with 11 times “Darood Sharif” before and after reciting those two blessed Attributes of Allah (SWT), then breath/blow on your body.

b. Also blow it over water and sugar, etc. and give it your husband to drink.

If that does not solve the problem, try to find a solution through opinionated elders of the family. 

If there is still no solution, you can opt for “Khul’aa” but after serious consultation with local Muftian-e-kiram or through a Shariah Office.

فقط واللہ اعلم واتم